Lover vs. Girlfriend
May 08, 2008
Us women will never be satisfied. Thats a fact. Every one of us is always searching for something better to get in our lifes, never completely happy with the situation we are at the moment. But even If we are happy and satisfied…….we cant help but wonder….what If….we would be in other possition…wouldn’t we be better of? That comes to both gender anyways. But back to women.
Few days ago I got to think about benefits and differences between being somebody Lover and a Girlfriend.
Somehow seems to me that when you are somebody lover, you have the quality to keep the person excited, always ready to be adventures, flirty. He never stop trying to amuse you, to show himself in the best possible picture. He is attentive, caring and all his senses are on the high motion cause he never knows If he will be able to see you again. So he try all his best to keep your attention.
Sure, If you are in Lover possition it is mostly about sex, but as well it is more fun. He will find time to text you just because…..so you wont forget about him…..he will make time just to be with you and spoil you like a princess, cause he feels over the moon you enjoying time with him, he adores you and compliments you…..just so you will be hung up on him. And you will enjoy this intensive attention.
On the other hand when you are somebodys Girlfriend, you might be taken for granted. He is also caring. But when you cross the line from Lover to a Girlfriend somehow the hunting game is over. All of sudden the excitement is gone, he is sure you are there and he does not have to amuse you anymore, suprice you, he wont feel the tickling in his stomach If he will see you or not. He will start talking only about issues like he is tired, hungry or sleepy and you have to understand. All of sudden you transofrm in his eyes into person that is constanlty unsatisfied, annoyied and bored.
And you just want to take few step back and show him you still the same girl he had fun before but he does not see that anymore.
You are his and he feels the need to start the hunting game all over with somebody else, because he thinks he knows everything about you and there are no more hidden door to excitement he would wanna unlock. Which is not truth.
When we are sombodys Lover, we are jelouse we don’t have him all for ourselfs. Usually Lover is a person who helps us to getaway from the dialy routine. Giving us fun, excitement, relaxing time away from our wifes, girlfriends or busy work. Lover is intensive period focused on human needs. Lover give us usually everything that our partner does not…or we think that.
When we are sombodys Girlfriend, we are jelouse, cause we know that he seeks for the excitement very likely somwhere else. Man always like to look at things they don’t need. They need the feeling there is another adventure they are capable to win over and that’s keep them going. And we know that as well.
So we torture ourself with the fact that we are not the one he dreams about, he wants to suprice or be adventures with. We are there for the backup, he knows we are there……one phonecall away and that’s what making us granted.
Few days ago I got to think about benefits and differences between being somebody Lover and a Girlfriend.
Somehow seems to me that when you are somebody lover, you have the quality to keep the person excited, always ready to be adventures, flirty. He never stop trying to amuse you, to show himself in the best possible picture. He is attentive, caring and all his senses are on the high motion cause he never knows If he will be able to see you again. So he try all his best to keep your attention.
Sure, If you are in Lover possition it is mostly about sex, but as well it is more fun. He will find time to text you just because…..so you wont forget about him…..he will make time just to be with you and spoil you like a princess, cause he feels over the moon you enjoying time with him, he adores you and compliments you…..just so you will be hung up on him. And you will enjoy this intensive attention.
On the other hand when you are somebodys Girlfriend, you might be taken for granted. He is also caring. But when you cross the line from Lover to a Girlfriend somehow the hunting game is over. All of sudden the excitement is gone, he is sure you are there and he does not have to amuse you anymore, suprice you, he wont feel the tickling in his stomach If he will see you or not. He will start talking only about issues like he is tired, hungry or sleepy and you have to understand. All of sudden you transofrm in his eyes into person that is constanlty unsatisfied, annoyied and bored.
And you just want to take few step back and show him you still the same girl he had fun before but he does not see that anymore.
You are his and he feels the need to start the hunting game all over with somebody else, because he thinks he knows everything about you and there are no more hidden door to excitement he would wanna unlock. Which is not truth.
When we are sombodys Lover, we are jelouse we don’t have him all for ourselfs. Usually Lover is a person who helps us to getaway from the dialy routine. Giving us fun, excitement, relaxing time away from our wifes, girlfriends or busy work. Lover is intensive period focused on human needs. Lover give us usually everything that our partner does not…or we think that.
When we are sombodys Girlfriend, we are jelouse, cause we know that he seeks for the excitement very likely somwhere else. Man always like to look at things they don’t need. They need the feeling there is another adventure they are capable to win over and that’s keep them going. And we know that as well.
So we torture ourself with the fact that we are not the one he dreams about, he wants to suprice or be adventures with. We are there for the backup, he knows we are there……one phonecall away and that’s what making us granted.
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