This was like the 3rd night in a row. Drinking,laughing, crying, nagging, singing.
3 weeks left to the wedding. We had those long cheeringfull nights only your girlfriends can give you. And the bride was freaking out!

First night we were all about planning the furture, what an amazing man she is marrying and how happy they'll be.
Second night we somehow ended on all his faults, mistakes and things she does not like and she is scared off. And the 3rd night was total agony. Desperate calculation of ex' s and what she will never be able to turn back and experience once she will tie the knot.


"My ex is still in contact with me" she said fairly drunk and starring at the wall."He does not want to let me go, he wants me back" she whispered."Kind of the I' ll never give you up itch". Her eyes were sparkling for a second with hope and excitement.
"Honey, If he wants you back, it is only because you are taken now, and he wants to have sex with you for the last time.If you are responding to him you feeding his hope".
She gave me suspicious look and gasp at me "You see sex behing everything!"

Ok, I didn' t want to get her frustrated, but I didn' t want to get her hurt either.
"Look If you did hurt his feelings by breaking up with him ,he should stop talking you to you whatsoever...he won't write you...call you...NADA. Thats a fact. If he still trying and you know he is not the type that goes backwards.....there is a high chance he just wants to get revange. Sleep with you and kick you out five minutes aftewards. Just for his own feeling of victory. It' s that simple."

But to be fair you can have sex with your ex. Just be prepared for the fact that If the sex is good...you don' t have it anymore. And If it' s bad....you just had sex with an ex."

"If you poke with the stick. It will poke back. I would not give him a chance to poke honey, and most definately not with his stick!"

We do marry certain type of man for the same reason we breaking up with other. Don' t look back.....move foward and squeeze the best out of everything that future has prepared for you.
Cheers.