Man´s "women"

Why do men have the need to telling us about all women that came throught their life or bed?

Do they think as more women there were before us, more high their price will raise and we will appreciate them more?

We dont think knowing about ours man past life is a good thing.

Specially about women.

Yes ofcourse, we have the urge to find out all their beauty and more likely all their mistakes and faults, cause If they would be so perfect he would be still with them, and not wiht us. It is part of our self-destructing porocess to know things, that will most likely hurt us.

(because we also doubt secretly deep down inside, If we are good enoguht for him).

But we have to ask, that way we can blame only ourselfs if we find out something we were not ready to hear. If we don..t and still we are being regullary served with tidbits about his past woman experience…..sooner or later we get devastated.

Cause when we have to listen about them, we have to realize they have been here before us, they did enjoy the same things and maybe more, maybe he liked them more, adored them more or even loved them more. Depens on how intensivly he talks about them.

But once border is being crossed we start to think……is he sorry he is not with them anymore, is he missing them so much and that empty hole is a place we cannot fill?

I can..t help but wonder….

Do we really mean anything to him? Why does he has the need to talk about them all the time? Is it some sort of „selfdefence" of not letting us close enought so we wont hurt his feelings, he might have?

If he has the need to remind us of what he use to have. Judgging our feelings based on strenght of a reaction does not seem as a good idea, cause every one gets annoyed with informations they didnt ask for.

And If those women are still presents in his life it gets worst…… specially when we reach point, when we dont know what is „teasing" and what is „true". On the other hand the way our man talking about his „women" makes us realize the way how he might be talking about us one day.

I don..t know what my advice would be, I would probably say: If he has the need to go still back and talk about other women he is not selfconfident with his presence. And even though you have to bite on this spicy cookie with listening to all that you also should try to show him that YOU are the BEST thing that ever happened to him! If he realize it or not, thats up to him.

Good luck!*wink

10:37 PM - 2 Comments - 4 Kudos - Add Comment - Edit - Remove